Tuesday, November 3, 2015

2016- Planning 101



I love color coding events in my life. Excel spreadsheets make me happy. My different calendars on my iPhone in different colors make me smile.  Why?  I don’t know.  I think it might be the perspective of order in my life.  I do understand that just because I have everything all nice and neat on paper it does not mean that life will turn out perfectly timed in reality.  But, for a moment when I look at my computer screen with all its color coding life is perfectly ordered. 

We all have a lot to balance as a church family.  I get it.  We have so many things on our calendars how can you make sure it all gets done?  This time of the year with holidays, parties, and events every other week, the calendar can be crushing.


As a family we gather together and take a look at what is most important on the calendar.  What have we committed to be at? What can be missed? What is going to transform our lives?  Then I notice that church is not on our calendar.  Somehow in all my color coding Sunday morning small groups and church services did not receive a color on the calendar.  I have my Sunday morning staff meetings marked and I have the scheduled baptisms noted, but church is not on the family calendar.  This really bothered me when I discovered it.  Then I realized why.  It does not need to be on the calendar.  It is a given.  

As a mother I want a lot for my boys and our family.  I want them to be happy. I want them to play sports and find some success in that. I want them to enjoy band and learn the music. Those events are things that we schedule and plan for.  My greatest goal for our boys is to have joy in their life.  True joy…  the type of joy that can only come from the love of having Jesus Christ at the center of their lives.  So, why is prayer and Sunday morning small groups and worship not on our calendar?  Well, I realized that not being in church is not an option; it is a part of who our family is.  Church is a stable of who we are.  The church family supports us in all that we do.  I could not imagine going through life without a church family to support our marriage, our parenting, and our children.  So, I am thinking that I might just create a new color calendar that is all things church.  Church is what is going to form my children into the men I desire them to be.  Church is what is going to support me when my family needs it the most.  Church is not a building, church is the people.  

So, in an effort to help you balance your family scheduling here is the 2016 St. Andrew Children’s Calendar.  Sit down and pencil us in…no use pen!  Make church a priority, because of all the things we as parents want our children to know as they grow up, is the story of God, and realize they are a part of His amazing story.